The Epic Heart-breaks.

We've all heard about the ups and downs of relationships. At some point, we all have experienced and been through the bitter process of major and minor heart-breaks. For me, the worst feeling in life had always been to lose people I love (though it happens quite frequently!). But I guess, it is an inevitable part of life..

We meet someone and initially, everything is EPIC. But then, the sun rises and reality set in..and the reality is that no relationship (whether it be friendship or a romantic relationship) is ever perfect. We all know this deep down, yet I wonder why it SO difficult for us to actually digest it?

I've lost a lot of loved ones in my life and everytime, when they leave I blame my fate and it feels like the end of the world..and the weird thing is that no matter how many times the same thing repeats the feelings stays the same.

So I gave this whole thing a thought and I found my answer in a Stephanie Meyer's novel. It says, 

"When life offers a dream so far beyond any of our expectations,it's unreasonable to grieve when it ends"..

Every person we meet in life and every relationship brings so many good stuff along with it..we learn so much and sometimes they leave memories to treasure for a life time..it truly feels epic..but when it ends, it's stupid to wish it never happened..

So from now on, I've decided that I'm gonna stop blaming my fate everytime the unexpected happens. I'm gonna start believing that aims are at the knowns and look for the bright side of every relationship..lets see how how far it works!