This post is dedicated to my bestfriend..I Just wanted to say that just because a guy broke your heart doesn't mean that your worth nothing. You're just awesome the way you are! :) And I hope you make a better choice next time!!

Dreaming isn’t a problem and hoping for the dreams to come true is also natural as long as we don’t let these dreams have a negative impact on reality. For an instance if someone was expecting something badly and the opposite turns out, obviously the person would be let down. In that case if he or she blames their fate and lose all hopes is it going to get them anywhere? On the other hand, if they think a bit deeper and see the other side of it they might realize that what has happened in fact is better…..

Same theory applies to relationships too….Just because our boyfriends or husbands doesn’t express their love each and every minute verbally like Edward Cullen does, or could not make each and every dream of us true we decide that they are not worth it…..we accuse them of not loving us and assume that we aren’t meant to be together..This is what happens 80% of the times. Just because they turn out “exactly” the way we imagined, we let them go and expect to meet another prince around the corner. After crossing so many corners and going a long way only we stop to think that maybe that guy did love me…..we would realize that maybe we did a mistake by letting things go the way we had….and then only we would come to the conclusion that we had been the one too shallow not to see his love.  Most of the time, by then it’s too late. Life had gives us that golden opportunity for a happily ever after and we had let go of it. No amounts of crying or regretting colud help us then. 

So, my advice to all my friends: if you boy friend doesn’t treat you like Edward does, do not run into a concise conclusion and decide he’d not worth your love. Sometimes there could be a million reasons why he might not be the way we expected and aims are at the known. The only thing we need to consider is that God has created a significant other for every human being and one day or the other, he would cross our paths. If they fail to recognize them or value them that’s no reason to blame fate, and if we give ourselves a chance by tolerating the indifferences and try to make it work out, the reward would be the happily ever after we dreamt about..And anyhow, this world already has a Stefan Salvatore and Fin Hudson..Maybe the guy made for us is much better and that’s why they are different!